How To Attract Men: Do's And Dont's For Women In First Few Dates

Ladies if you want to know how to attract men, more deeply then you have before, then it is high time that you need to get rid of the old restrictive thoughts and dating rules and embrace the new set of rules. Men are just like big kids....hope no guy looking this now. They can be really easy going during dating and especially true on the very first few dates with women they really wanted to progress to next level of relationship. BUT, men, they can also be really dense about certain things during a date. Following is the list of do's and don't during dating.

1) Gentlemen First Not Ladies First - For once and for your own happiness seek, let the guy first in this round, calling for dates. I know, I know, he is the cutest guy you have ever met in your dates, and is really breaking down your nerves waiting for the call after a success date, worst if you really having good feeling for him. Never, never, call him a day or two after last date. Wait for his call for about 3-4 days, these times, he might be practising and work up the courage to call you for the next date. However if he doesn't call, you must not call him in this stage. One thing you can do now is to sms him, saying 'hi' and some short messages asking him how he doing today, but not asking him out. Email him some interesting pictures, just to remind him of you.
By now, no matter how dense he is, he should be calling you for another date.

2) Alright, now you have your next date, so is it time to resume your'ladies first' mindset again. The answer is NO. In the first tip, you have already won the 1st round in the game of dating. And if you think that you can left the gentlmen wait for you in the dating venue, this can really give the guy a bad impression that you have stood him up. Prepare early for the next date, let him feel that you do respect him by coming in a little bit eariler or the best just in time for the date( too early might embarrass him for being late). Do not believe in guy when they say it's right to let them wait for women in the dates. Just imagine yourself sitting alone in a cafe for one hour.
 
3) Praise the big boy - Guy just like kid, just a comliment will put him at ease and make him feel comfortable in creating more topics when both of you are waiting for the service  of the restaurant or waiting for the threatre to open. By doing so, it also shows that you are talking notice of him and appreciate him for taking the effort in preparing for this date. Yo can be saying something about how unqie the tie is, how good he look in the new shirt or how well he match the colour of his shirt and pant. Just remember don't over do it, by saying how nice he comb his hair, as in actual fact he is having thin hairs.

4) keep your complaints at home - Many people think that only girls like to complain, it is true too that mnay guys like to complain. But this doen't mean that on the subsequent dates, you can let all the complains becoming the main topics during the dates. Do not let the poor service of the restaurant, bad sound system inside the cinema and etc affecting the wonderful night of dates. It doen't mean that you cannot voice out about all these, but you pharse it and the tone you using is very important as well. Going out with guy is totally different with your girl friends, like you all always 'venting' like you do. Just bare with it for a few hours and you can tell him in just any other normal conversation in the next dates about the bad experiences with the places or things you encountered during the last date with him. Most probably, he will try his best to make it up for the lousy date he made.

5) ENjoy yourself - Date is just another way which you can truely enjoy it by knowing new guy, new friends of his, new things which he might be teaching or showing you. Do you still remember how you first react when come to know your best friends now? I bet most of you might be forgetting, but not me. I remember when I first came to know my best friend, we belong to the same weekend musical class. We were both small kids and of course did not put on guard, waht we see is the real self of us. So, try letting your guard down for a day. He might or might not like the real you, bit if he doen't like the real you, why should you keep on dating with him.

Good Luck ladies and wishing you with many wonderful dates ahead.